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Showing posts with label Thailand. Show all posts

Sunday, 12 July 2020

Catamaran Odyssey - Phuket to Singapore 2002

Phuket to Singapore

In September 2002 we set sail for the open sea, mariners five. Four young sailors and our boat builder, Gunther, embarked upon an odyssey of Grecian proportions - Phuket to Singapore, and back to Koh Phangan, in our tiny 30ft Wharram catamaran.

We left Ao Chalong, a thundercloud hanging over Phuket as we left the island behind.  We were to feel no rain, only wind, and maybe Lettie, Gunther's wife, had been right...

... "The wind really is behind Nok Talay!"  We set the sails and we were bombing along - twice the speed of Kerida, our boat builder's ketch, and no heeling.  Gunther had told us that Nok Talay would feel like a Rolls Royce after our week long trip on Kerida.

"The wind really is behind Nok Talay!"
We sped passed Phi Phi island, a rainbow guiding our way - 
a good omen for the beginning of our trip 

Twenty-one hours later we'd accomplished what had previously taken four days in Gunther's little ketch.  We'd arrived at Rebak Marina, Langkawi, in our own boat. 

We manoeuvered Nok Talay into the bay to see how tiny she looked compared to the other yachts.  She sat so low in the water that from the jetty it looked like there was nothing of her - a strange that illusion, as aboard was only a feeling of spaciousness.

After a trip to immigration, swims in the marina pool and dinner in the yacht club restaurant, it was time to set sail again further down the Malaysian coast.  We navigated our way through Langkawi's outlying islands, then took to our 3 hour shifts at the helm.

Setting sail for the open sea... in our own boat!
3 hours on, 12 hours off, the rhythm of our days. 
Cooking up chicken, and fish, when we caught it...
the boys reefing the sails when it looked like a storm was brewing.

And that night we had a storm to 'blow the man down' - and we were hossing along.  We averaged 10 knots, maximum speed 13 knots... although later in the Changi Sailing Club Seaman Stu would comment, "No-one's ever got a Wharram to go that fast!"

We were screaming along, Nok Talay's port bow diving under the water, starboard hull reeling, water slamming over the deck into the cockpit.  The wind was biting us, and only later would Gunther admit he was so worried he had goosebumps.  But the boat, his creation, stood the test well, holding herself together and proving herself seaworthy.

An exhilarating storm - but in the back of my mind I couldn't get rid of a friend's words from his outings on his own Tiki 26, "12 knots is TOO fast."  When the storm had passed we were all content to sail along at a meagre three knots for the next couple of hours.

Sailing aboard Nok Talay - 'Seabird' in Thai
Supertankers by Night

Later that night we approached Penang and had our first experience with a supertanker, up close and personal.  As its navigation lights came closer and closer, Gunther told me to hold my course, it would be gone by the time we got there.  And true enough that supertanker did steam on by - but it was still hair-raising stuff the first time, especially at night!  By the time we reached Singapore we were hardly batting an eyelid at them.

We passed on by in the night, rainclouds threatening, 
a storm brewing but no wind or rain... 
"Weird," said Guenther

The tankers disappeared and we were back to the open ocean, working our way south down the Malaysian coast.  The next morning we passed through One Fathom Banks, a bottle neck on the shipping lanes, and suddenly there were tankers everywhere again.

The wind had died in Penang, and after a night of motoring we'd decided it was time for some sailing.  But a few hours later, not only had we sailed perilously across the channel of supertankers, we had drifted miles out to sea and were suddenly going nowhere fast - travelling at 1.9 knots per hour on the wrong course, against the current. 

It was time to take stock, get some power going and motor back closer to shore to where we could navigate safely should the GPS fail.  Safety first - and speed is safety at sea.

Nok Talay charter to the Angthong Marine Park 2003
Back on course we had a marvellous day sailing down the coast.  As sunset approached I took my shift at the helm on a glassy ocean, a low orange sun to the west lighting our way from behind.  The lighthouse ahead beckoned us on towards Admiral Marina.

Port Dickson glimmered away in the distance, twinkling like a minute Hong Kong in the evening light.  The sky above was aswathe with stars - it was so spellbinding out at sea. Soon, we navigated our way in to lie at anchor outside Admiral Marina for the night.

Arriving into port, Gunther found he had an extra day free, but the open ocean was calling us.  We were dying to get Nok Talay back to the sea.  Tomorrow was Friday the 13th - sailors never set sail on a Friday - and so it was decided back to the sea, yippee!

Catching fish on the Malaysian coast
 Malacca Straits

South, South, South.  New ground, new waters.  Malacca to the east, Sumatra in the unseeable distance to the west.  With calm ocean, quiet wind, we motored downwards into the Malacca Straights, the beginning of the busiest shipping lanes in the world. 

Unbeknown to us the current was pulling us off course, and we were drifting ever closer to the shipping lanes.  In the early hours the current had started to push the boat and the waves forward, while the wind, opposing the current, was coming from dead ahead.

The resulting choppy ocean gave Nok Talay a bashing.  Gunther set the engine speed to optimise a controlled motor sail to settle her down.  We were comfier on deck, but the vibrating from the engine was giving the sleeping sailors below suicidal tendencies!

"The boat must be comfortable (and therefore safe) 
over everyone else's comfort - then all will be safe" Gunther

When Marty came up on deck to take his shift he decided to do an experiment with the engine, slowing it down... thereby steering us straight into the shipping lanes.

After a heated discussion on the pros and cons of motorsailing we finally went to bed - but the next morning Nok Talay had crossed the lanes of supertankers and we'd drifted miles out to sea again, going backwards in a 3 knot current with the engine off.

After a quick conference it was decided, against our skipper at the helm's wishes, to get the engine started!  The busiest shipping lane in the world was not, we agreed, the place to get upset about fuel consumption and engine noise - as valid as those concerns were.

Angthong Marine Park, Gulf of Thailand
There were lessons to be learnt for all of us.  We had to feel it for ourselves, it wasn't something Gunther could teach us.  We had to learn how the current could affect our course, that we had to steer adjustingly.  It wasn't always as easy as getting the compass set right and off you go - we had to learn to sail our boat through our own experiences.

Back on course, going somewhere again, Kukup Island on the Malaysian coast was fast approaching as we sailed onwards towards our first major destination... Singapore.

But first, we were hit by a dreaded Sumatra storm... 


To celebrate 250,000 all time views on my Koh Phangan Tales blog, I'm publishing this never before told, old sea shanty from many moons ago... Soon to be continued!


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Friday, 22 May 2020

Haad Rin's Trio of Beaches - Past and Present Times


The Magic of Haad Rin
 
The journey has remained the same for the last twenty years. Take the Haad Rin Queen ferry from Big Buddha on Koh Samui, and soon you are traversing that turquoise sea back to Koh Phangan. Which returning traveller hasn't felt that sense of excitement deep in their belly, aware of the wonders that await them? As the mystical island rises out of the deep blue sea, time expands and the vortex draws us in, until we arrive at Haad Rin pier - ready for another adventure of a lifetime.




Once upon a time, the world outside Haad Rin used to disappear into another existence. It would be weeks or months before us wide-eyed travellers, weary of the Asian trail, would leave these shores again. Haad Rin would draw us in and keep us spellbound, until another magical season had passed on by. Nowadays visitors may stay only a few days, but the magic still remains! Once the Full Moon Party has passed, Haad Rin, quite paradoxically, remains the best kept secret on the Thai islands.



Today Haad Rin is quietly undergoing a facelift. The image of drunken youth trashing their party wonderland is fast becoming outdated, as beautiful, aesthetic resorts spring up all around Haad Rin's three beaches. At the pier, Haad Rin Resort's pool has an unsung olympic opulence to it. Up the hill, Sun Cliff boasts stunning views over Sunset Beach. While higher up still, Sea Breeze has spectacular views over another of Haad Rin's sublime and unheralded jewels: Leela Beach. 
 
The Sublime Leela Beach


 
Twenty years ago Leela Beach was a deserted palm lined cove, with a shack restaurant and one lone beach hut. I remember a straw blond German staking out his territory in that lone beach hut for a few seasons in the early 1990's.  You'd see him
at every party in his silver 'Spaceman Spiff' trousers. He was either wearing those trousers or nothing at all, frolicking in the warm coral seas of Leela Beach. As Koh Phangan veteran Mario will tell you, our strange ways were tolerated back then.

Nowadays the uncompromising beauty of Leela Beach can be enjoyed as much as it ever was, from the sensitively integrated resorts of Coco Hut and Sarikantang. The old Leela Beach Bungalows further down the seashore still remain, and this beach remains a favourite hang out for both those looking for a little more luxury - and those Koh Phangan long-termers in the know! What better waterfront jewel on Koh Phangan to spend the afternoon on than the wondrous Leela Beach?

Bohemian Haad Rin Sunset 


Haad Rin Sunset is still my all time favourite stretch of beach on the planet, probably. Not only does it have million dollar views to Koh Samui in the distance, it also has the most sublime sunsets I've ever seen. I've stayed at family run Bird Bungalows for the last twenty years. The three-tiered coloured sea is shallow here, but in recent years some classy poolside resorts have sprung up on Haad Rin Sunset too - upping the Bohemian sense on Sunset Beach from shabby to chic luxury.

Of course long-standing Coral Bungalows, with its pool parties and high profile Muay Thai contests, is a must visit for the backpacker crowd. As is Seaside for a traditional happy hour beer. But if you are seeking charm and style, the resorts of Best Western Phanganburi and The Coast provide the perfect holiday atmosphere. Expect good service, spa treatments, great food and superb cocktails. Both have the lavish allure of a relaxing stay in Haad Rin. And, my oh my, those sunsets!



And then… explore! Who doesn't want to get off the beaten track and discover untouched beaches on their travels? And that is the beautiful paradox of Haad Rin. Keep walking ten or fifteen minutes after Bird Bungalows on Sunset Beach, and you will soon discover the best kept secret of the lot: virgin territory, granite rocks and empty beaches like something out of a Robinson Crusoe movie. Surrounded by lush vegetation, a forgotten world exists, so very close to the Full Moon Party.


Full Moon Party Bay

And then there is the most famous beach in Asia. Think of Haad Rin, and most think only of the wild chaos of the Full Moon Party. But
in my opinion this gorgeous bay still comes top of the most beautiful beaches in South East Asia. That fine white sand, that jungle backdrop, that wide, sweeping, crescent moon bay! It's just such an exquisite shore, where we can play in the turquoise surf and lie on a sun-drenched beach under the palms. It fulfills all our ideals of paradise.


Cactus and Drop In may come alive by night, but during the day Sunrise, Phangan Bayshore and Fairyland offer some of the best chilled beach living anywhere. That's where you'll find us lounge lizards soaking up the sun, sea & surf! For those of us more active there's volleyball at Tommys, Muay Thai at Jungle Gym, not to mention some of the best yoga on the island at Lighthouse. Secret coves, sunset beaches and hedonistic luxury... Haad Rin has got it all! What's not to love?

Why don't you stay a while longer and discover the delights of Haad Rin for yourself?


Welcome to Paradise!


First published on Haadrinbeach.com in 2016
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Saturday, 29 November 2014

Is the Party Over for Thailand?

Negative headlines keep hitting the news everyday. 'Thailand: Most Dangerous Tourist Destination' and 'All Parties Cancelled on Koh Phangan' are two recent danger signals for would-be Thailand travellers...

Full Moon Party, Koh Phangan - Thai Party for Me Photo Report November 2014
With all the bad press, should backpackers still travel to Thailand, or just change their itinerary to avoid the party islands?

There will be many nervous tourists who reroute their trip, and choose other travel destinations instead. But party-going backpackers are a quick-witted and sturdy breed of traveller.  They understand the fast-moving nature of events in Asia.  They also know, intuitively, that bad things can happen to
holiday-makers anywhere.

Travellers who show respect to the culture they are in, and to themselves - by keeping their wits about them - will find their trip to Thailand just as enjoyable and wildly fulfilling as ever.  When
disaster isn't intentionally courted, the risks of travelling to Thailand are minimised no end.

Read more: How to Stay Safe on the Paradise Thai Islands

Full Moon Party Photo Reports via Thai Party for Me
But it's not just safety in Thailand... 
Aren't all parties on Koh Phangan cancelled?

The official stance is currently that all parties, except the Full Moon Party, are cancelled. With 3 Full Moon Parties in December  2014 - Full Moon, Christmas & New Year - plus the 30 year anniversary of this legendary party taking place in January - there seems to be no reason to cancel a trip to Koh Phangan.

It is hard to say how malleable the Military Rules are this time.  Although it would be fool-hardy to dispute the official line, there is an underlying feeling on Koh Phangan that all parties in November only have been cancelled.  High season, and December in particular, is a different kettle of party-goers fish.

Don't be surprised to arrive on Koh Phangan to find business returning to normal
in high season.  If all the major parties still find themselves under restrictions, expect to find a few daytime gatherings - and sunset parties - taking place on a beach near you, instead.

Although it is fair to say that this time it is different, it also a true fact of life that in Thailand circumstances change as quickly as the tropical weather.  After the rainstorm, the sun will surely put his hat on... and come out to party again.

April 12th 2015: Songkran celebrations @ Half Moon Party, Koh Phangan
APRIL 2015 UPDATE:  This post was originally written in November 2014. High season did indeed kick off with a vengeance, with parties happening at every opportunity. Now April is here, the clampdown is coming into effect again.

The official statement is that as of April 5th 2015, all parties - except the Full Moon Party - are once again banned on the island of Koh Phangan.

Residents have been complaining about noise pollution, and a recent poll amongst Koh Phangan locals returned a major vote of 85% AGAINST having parties on Koh Phangan.

Mind-blowing figures, especially when you factor in that tourism brings in 7 million baht to the Koh Phangan economy every year.

So the million baht question seems to be: without parties, will the tourists still come? And is noise pollution a more important issue to the locals than revenue streams? 

Only time will tell... And as always, nothing is quite as it appears on Koh Phangan. 
The get-out clause, as reported by Thai PBS, may be this:
"However, special permission would be required for additional parties to be held."

If the photo of the huge crowd at the Half Moon Festival last night are anything to go by, you would have to say... the party isn't over just yet. Watch this space!

April 13th 2015 


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Sunday, 16 November 2014

Reticulated Python Release with Samui Snake Rescue

Seriously Killer Content: Snakeman Phil from Samui Snake Rescue releases Reticulated Pythons into the wild in Thailand.

Samui Snake Rescue releases Reticulated Pythons - Video transcript, Part 1:
Mel: OK, so here we are in Koh Samui, up in the palm jungle and the rainforest, the mountainside. Here's Phil with a small 2.5m - see the tongue there? - beautiful reticulated python.
Speaking to Phil: Is he going to restrict your arm straight away? Is that a problem, or not?
Mel: Pablo's got to put the lid on the box so the next snake doesn't get out, and here we are, Phil's getting ready to go. We've got 3 snakes today, this is the smallest one. We need to release it near a water source, so it can have a drink. It can go months without food…
Phil: Do you want to grab the tail and wind him off me? Pull the tail and just wind him off.
Mel: Wow. Ok, yes, so grabbing hold of the tail, like that, like I'm unwrapping a rope. OK, like that.
And away he goes. Bang! One released to the wild.
Phil: See, he's coming right back at me.
Mel: Straight back at you! Away you go, little lovey. You're free now. And there you go, released into the wild...



Samui Snake Rescue releases Reticulated Pythons - Video transcript, Part 2:
Mel: Here we are, Koh Samui, Samui Snake Rescue, with Phil and Pablo. We are just about to release the 2nd Reticulated Python. This one should be 3.5m. Beautiful yellow colouring…
Is this the big one, Phil?
Phil: No. Well it's a big one, but not the big one.
Mel: Wow! So this is a three and a half metre… wow, look at that. Tongue's flashing a little bit. Is it heavy? How heavy is it Phil?
Phil: This one? He's not so heavy actually, Mel. He's not even 10 kilos, if that.
Mel: OK. We've got a beautiful habitat to release him into to…. He's coming back to us…
Pablo: Wow. Look at that!
Mel: He wants to get up into a tree. Some of them hang out in trees. He's gone straight into that burrow there. There he goes. Away he goes down there.
Phil: He's here mate, he's gone up the tree.
Pablo: I see him, mate.
Mel: Is he going up the tree? So he's climbing the tree. We've got this lovely habitat up in the Koh Samui jungle for his new home. He'll eat rats, mammals, anything hot-blooded. No reptiles or fish. He could be prey for a King Cobra, which is probably why he's gone up the tree. And there we go. Released into the wild. One more to go. We've got a 4.5m reticulated python still to release.
Phil: He'll probably sleep in there today, then when it gets dark he'll go off over there…



Monster Python Release in Koh Samui Jungle - Video transcript, Part 1:
Mel: OK, 3rd snake of the day. We've got a thick and dense, dark jungle habitat for the star of the show.
Phil: Hello, big man.
Mel: A four and a half metre Reticulated Python. And this one is about 20kg, says Phil! And there we go, in all its glory. Let's try and get a little bit closer. Wow. So he's not quite as yellow as the others. Is he older then, Phil?
Phil: Yes. See the size of the head? Usually the more mature they are, the bigger the head is. All snakes can grow throughout their life…
Mel: Is he going to freak out at me?
Phil: You can never tell the true age of snakes, really.
Mel: So it depends on what he's eaten, you were saying as well? So it depends on the prey he's eating as to how big he gets, is that right?
Phil: Yes, pretty much. He's coming straight for you, look, Mel.
Mel: Yes, look. Does he like me?
Phil: Look at that! Look at that. He's off.
Mel: Wow! So is that the movement that you were talking about, Phil? What did you call that movement, when he moves?
Phil: This is serpentine. That's called serpentine, that is. Here you are. Look at that, now!
Mel: OK and he's ready to go off to his new home. Wow! And away you go! He's a MONSTER! And there he goes into his new habitat.
Phil: How cool is that?
Mel: He's away, man.


Monster Python Release in Koh Samui Jungle - Video transcript, Part 2:
Phil: Oh, he's coming back round, look, he's doubled back on us, he's doubled back.
Mel: Are we his prey? (Nervous laugh)…
Phil: Yes. I'm not joking.
Mel: Really?
Pablo: No, he is. He is, too.
Phil: Pythons stalk people, mate.
Mel: (Chokes on her words) And what is the biggest prey they'd take? Would they take... would they take… would they take a human?
Phil: He's coming straight back up at us, mate.
Mel: Wow. He likes you, Phil. He doesn't want to leave you. He's had a nice time with you.
Pablo: He is. He's coming right back up.
Phil: Straight up.
Mel: Wow.
Phil: Hello matey! Do you remember me?
Mel: (Talking to the snake) Is that your friend?
Phil: No. (Talking to the snake) Because you want to kill me, don't you.
Mel: (Laughs out loud.) So he would strike at you, if he wanted to kill you, he would grab on, then he would wrap himself around you, and constrict you. And that's what pythons do, isn't it?
Phil: Oh yeah.
Mel: Oh yeah.
Phil: He's going the right way now.
Mel: He's going the right way. He's decided, hopefully, maybe we're too big, and away he goes.
Phil: No, he's doubling straight back round. Come on, we're going.

 
Mel: (Laughing) Come on, we're going. OK, and that's our Samui Snake Rescue, and we don't want to become the prey, so we're away.



Thanks to our good friend, Snakeman Phil, for taking us along on his journey to release these striking creatures into their native habitat. 

If you are on Koh Samui and you find a snake of any kind in your house, garden or resort, please do call Phil for assistance on Samui Snake Rescue 08-96635085. 


How to Stay Safe on the Paradise Thai Islands
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Saturday, 4 October 2014

How To Stay Safe On The Paradise Thai Islands

With the recent nightmare murders on Koh Tao turning into a worldwide media enquiry, questions are being raised about safety in Thailand. 

How safe is it to travel in Thailand for a long-term visitor to the islands?  How safe as a back-packer? And most of all, as a single woman traveller?

The events this time are too horrific to be swept under the carpet.  There are many Thailand pundits, such as Andrew Spooner, who now say the dangers of travelling here should be brought into full view - so people can understand the risks. 

Then there are in-the-know expats like Richard Barrow and Q Bar owner Andrew Clark, who have lived in Bangkok for decades - and say 'random shit happens everywhere' and they've always felt safe living in Thailand.

So is it just the islands that are dangerous?  Anyone can be in the wrong place at the wrong time.  And nothing is foolproof.  But it is possible to minimise the risks of disaster befalling you in Thailand, by keeping your wits about you.



The Murderous Facts

Officially there are 3,600 murders in Thailand every year, compared with 600 in the UK. But considering most Englishmen solve their arguments with fist fights - and not guns and knives - you could well expect the UK to be 6 times safer than Thailand.

It may be that murder numbers in Thailand are actually higher, and that the Land of Smiles is 10 times more dangerous than the UK - as it is for road fatalities.  But again, with the UK's level of health and safety, the road death figure is hardly surprising.
 

In the UK it is illegal to drink and drive.  It's a legal requirement to wear seatbelts.  And who would dream of riding a motorbike in flip-flops and shorts, without a crash helmet? Thankfully, there is a lot less crash and burn in the UK.  

But what about the murders? 

There is no denying it: we just witnessed the most gruesome farang murder in history.  And I guess that is what is so shocking - there is no recent precedent for such an horrific event on the islands.  It's not something we are used to seeing or coping with. 


A Rogue Element

None of us can explain away the abhorrent murders of Hannah and David on Koh Tao.  Only those who were there or have seen the evidence know the truth.  We hope justice will be served.  Meanwhile, I can only say what we know about Koh Phangan.

There have been three murders involving farang in the last 20 years - and they have a common theme: they weren't committed by Koh Phangan people.


Haad Rin has - until very recently - been demonised as the most dangerous place in Thailand.  But it is more of a rogue element of itinerant workers that has given Koh Phangan's Full Moon Party a bad name. 


As one Koh Phangan local said, "Koh Phangan guys don't do like that.  T
hese outsider boys come here, make trouble for us, then leave us locals to clean up their mess."

That's not to say there isn't danger or violence on Koh Phangan.  But it is unjust to tar the whole island with the same brush.

Over the last 20yrs the Haad Rin Thais have accepted me into their community.  I've been to their weddings and funerals, I've celebrated festivals and birthdays with them, and I've sang karaoke with them until 4am in the morning, after a skinful of whiskey.


And I can honestly say, in all those twenty years, I have never seen a Haad Rin Thai pull a gun or a knife, ever, in all that time.


Haad Rin Thais are more likely to tie each other up with string than pull a gun
The native Haad Rin people were always peaceable and happy-go-lucky by nature.  It is more likely to be outsiders from places such as gangster heartland Nakhon Si Thammarat that are trouble makers in Full Moon Party town.

And knowing that you are more likely to find trouble within a certain crowd, it is possible to mitigate the risks of you, too, getting into trouble.

* Rule No.1 in Thailand:  Never cross a Thai.

And that's the second point about these murders on Koh Phangan. Each of those farang, inadvertently or unwittingly, put themselves in the path of danger. Long-termers Sam and Astrid caused their protagonists so much heartache they got killed for it.

Whereas, in a classic case of wrong place at the wrong time, tourist Stephen, as his killer unfortunately admitted,"got in the way."


* Rule No.2 in Thailand:  If Thais are fighting, walk the other way.


If you see some Thai guys having a bust-up on the beach at close quarters, run the other way as fast as you can.  Thai fist fights can quickly turn to broken glass and knives and gun fights. Know the risks, and get out of harm's way.

I have no desire to enter the moral debate between victim blaming and cause & effect.  Cultural misunderstandings and opposing points of view abound.  Admittedly, it's a minefield.  It's hard to claim the high ground when cultural attitudes are so opposite. 


But by becoming aware of the risks, right or wrong, hopefully similar tragic crimes may be avoided in the future.


Opposing Cultural Attitudes 

Which brings us on to the next subject: sex and violence.  In his recent story on rape culture in Thailand, Cod Satrusayang quotes well known Thai critic, Kwaemala, author of Thai Love Talk.  

"Portrayals of rape (in Thai soap operas) are a symptom and not a cause," she said. "Traditional Thai values still place so much responsibility on women to behave properly, to be safe and untarnished." 

"I ask, can you get away with wearing bikinis in Thailand? Unless you are not beautiful?" Thai Prime Minister General Prayuth, September 2014

An affront to Western sensibilities?  That doesn't change how ingrained this attitude is in Thai culture, regardless of how right or wrong we think it is.  The Bikini General may be politically incorrect in Western terms, but nudity is an affront to Thai sensibilities.

The Thais, who have never been colonised, have to put up with gap-year students with 'loose morals' - farangs getting naked and flashing at Full Moon Parties - because they believe in Thailand anything goes.

A Koh Phangan native, who I've known since I used to teach her English when she was 10yrs old, recently put up an FB post to say as much.

In the topsy turvy Land of Smiles, in a controlled environment (say, a girlie bar) yes, anything goes.  But to Thais there is a huge difference between poor Northern girls working to pay their bills, and 'high class Eurotrash' behaving immorally in public.


Full Moon Party September 2014 via Thai Party for Me
Respect Yourself

As a lone female traveller to the islands in the early 1990's, hanging out in the Bauhaus bar in Lamai on Koh Samui, it was explained to me - by the bar boys - like this:

It is completely acceptable for fat, old, rich white men to go with young Thai girls - but it is taboo for rich white girls to sleep with poor Thai boys.  "Why would she lower herself?", I remember the Bauhaus bar boys questioning in disgust.

Also, the idea of jumping from one Thai guy's bed to another is worse than anathema to them.  As far as they are concerned, you have just become their property, and to so much as flirt with another Thai guy - or even worse, a farang - completely humiliates them.


This is where a lot of the violence at beach bars on the Thai islands comes from. 
Girls, sex, alcohol and Asian boys.

Who hasn't been attracted by the wily charms and lithe muscles of an Asian one?

* But girls, leave those brown-skinned boys alone.

 
Of course, there are exceptions to the rule.  I have lots of farang girlfriends who are in successful relationships with their Thai partners.  But the difference is, all those girls spent time living on the islands and developing long-term relationships with local guys. 


All those girls have a high level of self-respect.  They never, ever had one night stands; if they did, those Thai guys would never have respected them. 

As a tourist, if you want to make new friends, play it safe and make sure it is another farang.  Take heed of the potential dangers.  Also remember, as in the rest of Asia, public displays of affection are frowned upon.  If you want to get intimate, do it in private.


Loved up: Full Moon Party July 2014 via Thai Party for Me
How To Stay Safe In Paradise
 
Thai Party for Me's 'Full Moon Party FAQs' - which we put together earlier this year - sum it up in 'Things to Avoid':

As long as you keep to basic rules you would follow anywhere in the world, the Full Moon Party can be the most amazing experience of your life:

* Respect Thai culture, respect yourself; be aware of cultural differences: you are a guest in a foreign land you may not always understand. Leave your Western hot-headedness at home, always walk away from trouble, and never, ever get into a fight with a local. 

* It may feel like you are on the beaches of Europe, but remember you are in Asia, and in the Land of Smiles 'rational logic' as you know it may not always go your way.

* Don't get into fights with strangers. Don't get so drunk you can't make your way home safely. Or if you do get that drunk, make sure your friends have got your back. 

Thailand is a safe country to travel in for the majority of travellers, but at the same time: it can be up to ten times more dangerous than being in your home country. 


Keep your wits about you.  Danger increases in equal increments to the amount you leave your brains behind - although that would be the same in any country, or city like New York or London.  Keep a tab on your friends.  Don't go home with strange men. 

Looking out for each other: Full Moon Party June 2014 via Thai Party for Me
Simple advice, that any father would give to his daughter when she went to any strange town.  Be sensitive to local culture and attitudes, and chances are you'll be just fine.  I, along with many others, have had no problems in 20 years of travelling to Thailand.  

As awful as the tragedy that has just happened on the Thai islands is, it does not happen everyday.  Stay mindful, and stay safe in paradise.

© Mia Escobud 2014


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Sunday, 20 July 2014

Full Moon Party - Debunking the Trashy Myth

full moon party sunrise on koh phangan
It's easy to do a google search and Slate the Full Moon Party, as a Beijing media consultant recently did - adding to the long list of sensationalist articles written about Koh Phangan with the same intent.

'Thailand's Full Moon Party is debauched, depraved and increasingly deadly. If only it were fun' Robert Foyle Hunwick, Slate.com

Jaded Editor vs Bucket List

Coming to the Full Moon Party with a preconceived view of what he was going to write, was this China editor jaded by too much time spent in Asia? He certainly didn't sound like the young, fresh '20-somethings' travelling to Asia for the first time, ready to experience the party of their lives.

And that's the point: the Full Moon Party is a Rite of Passage for hundreds of thousands of virgin travellers to Asia every year. If they haven't experienced a Full Moon Party on Koh Phangan, they haven't lived. On an eye-opening tour to South East Asia, this party comes top of their 'bucket list'. 

Perhaps we can always rely on jaded commentators to skew the facts with their own truth. But a few days after every full moon, it is just as easy to do a twitter search - and find a stream of tweets from first time revellers, proclaiming the Full Moon Party was the best night of their young lives.

Time's Trashy Disgrace
 
So isn't it Time we dispelled the myth and put the facts into perspective? Reading behind the lines of Time Magazine's recent 'Trashy Disgrace' article, wasn't that more a reflection on our degenerative Western generation, whose idea of having fun and the time of their life is an alcohol fuelled binge? 

It isn't the Thais fault that 15,000-50,000 people turn up on their shores for every Full Moon Party. In fact, you could almost blame the publication
itself, that now calls the Full Moon Party a trashy disgrace. It was Time who popularised Koh Phangan, with their 2000 article of a hippy utopia.

'Tamara, this retiring, freckled brunette with a narrow body and tiny waist, this daddy's girl from La Jolla, California, roves the beach barebreasted in daylight and raves the night away at Full Moon parties or up at the Backyard trance club. She will tell you, seriously, that what is going on here is a whole new civilisation'. The Real Beach, TIME 2000

So, you see, it was Time itself who dispelled the Koh Phangan myth in the first place, and now, today, wishes to cast its iron opinion on our beloved island, again. How so? 30,000 people regularly came flocking to the Full Moon Party like never before after that 2000 article, and the rest is history. 

So much for a hippy utopia. It had gone mainstream. We should all be responsible for our actions - Time included? We invited our friends, they invited their friends, etc, etc. But none had a bigger impact globally than Time Magazine and their far-reaching article about our secret shores.

Suddenly the native Koh Phangan Thais, who didn't even have electricity (except for generators before the year 2000) were catapulted into the modern age. Remember that only 30 years before today they were harvesting coconuts and fishing from the Koh Phangan coral reefs as livelihoods. 


Considering they had no idea how to cope with the plastic fantastic age which was about to descend upon them, the Koh Phangan Thais, you would have to say, have been doing a pretty good job of keeping their environment as pristine as they possibly can. 

They haven't had the 200 years since the industrial revolution - that we in the West have had - to adapt and cope with the change.

It's all about perspective.


Take a look at these 'Spot the Trash' photos:


Photos of the trash left behind at Glastonbury 2014 - it will take 6 weeks to get the site back to normal
For a few days of the month, when 30,000 revellers descend on Haad Rin, it is a wild party chaos. But look at this scene from Glastonbury in June 2014 and it was no different. Trash everywhere, disgarded by the non-conscious party goers who herald from a throw away Western society. 

It will be 6 weeks before Glastonbury will be restored to its natural beauty… But take a look at Haad Rin the next morning after the Full Moon Party, July 2014. The day after the biggest festival in Asia, it is crystal clean and once again one of the most breath-taking beaches in South East Asia.

Is Haad Rin the trashy disgrace?
full moon party july 2014 no trash
Full Moon Party July 2014, 8am - photo via Thai Party for Me 
Head to Haad Rin at 10am the next morning and you will find yourself on the most pristine beach and stunning bay in S E Asia, with absolutely no throwback to the wild party of the night before. Is it really us Koh Phangan long-termers who need to take our rose-coloured glasses off, I wonder?
  
Haad Rin has received enough bad press. And all because it's a good story to tell - and sell. Just like that disenchanted critic, who admitted in his latest article that most of his research - and his opinion of the Full Moon Party - were decided upon long before he even arrived on the island.

It wasn't objective: he went out with the intention to Slate the Full Moon Party. It was, once again, sensational. But you can't take that into account without listening to the thousands of voices having the time of their life at this party to end all parties, every single month of the year.


A Rite of Passage
 
Who better to ask than David Dancing Elephant, who has successfully run Haad Rin's No.1 party hostel for the last 5 years? In that time he has seen over 5000 revellers pass through his Dancing Elephant Hostel, all excited beyond belief to be experiencing the Full Moon Party for the first time.

"Yes, totally, the Full Moon Party is really an incredible moment in their trip. They can prepare up to 11 months in advance, they book their hostel, they dream about it. When they arrive, or even before they arrive, they tell or write to me how VERY excited they feel about this week of parties."

The Full Moon Party for most people is a one time event. 
And like Glastonbury, if you ask those 20 year olds, they will tell you:  
"It was the time of my life"

The Full Moon Party means the world to them. It means they have lived, and it is a rite of passage: they are a world traveller. They have experienced the most iconic party of their life. They'll still be wearing their Full Moon Party T-shirts and wristbands as they carry on the South East Asian road.

They've earned their travelling stripes, and they are proud of them. They'll tell their Full Moon Party stories from Cambodia to Australia.
When they get home, you can be sure their favourite memories will be their fleuro-painted photographs of themselves and their Koh Phangan tattoos. 

It's a sign they have lived, survived, and they are alive.


Long live the Full Moon Party & the Rite of Passage it signifies!

 
By the end of the 1990's the Sub-Hippy Myth 
was exploding into Mainstream Culture

Haad Rin 1993: a little piece of raver's paradise 
that kicked until dawn a few times a week
 
A week after arriving back on the Thai islands,
the Dec 1994 Full Moon Party was beckoning



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